Do The Work

It’s simple arithmetic, 1 + 1 = 2
So why do you still act as if you’re living solo?
Why do you still make decisions without discussing it with your partner, when those decisions affect the both of you?
You hear that when you become a couple you are no longer two people
People like to say that you become one soul
Some parts of that are true but honestly you still must think on an individual basis from time to time
Knowing the right approach, knowing what is a good or bad idea, and knowing what works and doesn’t work comes from communication
If you are new to the concept of a healthy and well-functioning relationship, make that known to your partner
We all have a past of being with people that weren’t right for us
We all have been in situations when we basically carried the relationship emotionally, financially, and spiritually
So going into a better situation requires you to share that past with them so that they understand what’s going on with your contribution to the relationship
No one enjoys trying to read your mind and when you leave the other person with only that option, 9 times out of 10, what they come up with won’t be your true intentions
It is really disheartening when you see relationships end left and right
Often times it is those simple things that could have been repaired and could have saved the relationship
Nowadays people are so impatient and don’t want to invest the time to make things work
Then you see them posting about how tired they are of being single, yet when you are with someone you don’t want to do the work
To my single guys that have what it takes to make another person happy, hold on your mate is coming
To those that jump from relationship to relationship, destroying someone else’s chance for happiness…
SIT YO DAMAGED ASS DOWN SOMEWHERE!!!!!