It's really a trip when you make decisions to change your life. There are those people that are true "Ride or Die" and then there are those that blindside you with things you didn't know. Like people telling you that they wanted to be with you, people not agreeing with your life choices, or just people trying to rain on your parade.
Whatever happened to people just being happy for you? Whatever happened to a strong support system? Life is difficult enough without having those around you trying to weigh you down and destroy your happiness with their misery.
Keep at bay that which would bring down the joy you seek. Take a moment to re-evaluate those around you. Often times we collect people in our lives because they need us more than we need them. If you are a nurturer, a provider, a healer, a giver, or just an all-around genuine person you will be tested and even taken for granted.
Unfortunately beautiful people attract all sorts of people and it's often difficult to weed out the ones not deserving of our nurturing spirit. So if you are in a place of transition in your life and you are beginning to figure out or even beginning to second guess your inner circle, chances are you have those types of people and you need to follow your instinct to part ways from them.
Never allow their negativity to trigger you becoming negative in retaliation to them. Don't give them your power, instead, use your power to maybe enlighten them on how you should respect and cherish when you have been blessed to have such an amazing person in their life. Maybe that act will change them from the inside and they may one day walk the walk of true and genuine existence.
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