Ask yourself these questions…
Are you worth the risk?
Are you worth the sacrifice?
Are you the one that can impact someone’s life?
Can you truly give your heart to someone without holding back?
Can you be transparent?
Can you be there through it all?
Can you take someone as they are without exception?
Can you be their protector, their soldier, their knight in shining armor?
It’s not as simple as just saying yes and trying to convince love interest that you are all of these things. The best way to answer these questions isn’t by words but by actions. Love is a beautiful thing, but without showing your love…it’s merely a word. So many of us put our fears as restrictions of what we won’t tolerate or deal with. It’s easier to come off as being picky and not to show that we are broken and scared of being hurt again.
Face that pain that has you in that place. You aren’t meant to live alone if in your heart you truly want love. God designed you and created your other half. It’s difficult for them to find you or for you to see them if you are blinded by fear and pain.
To those people that try to sabotage other people’s relationships, I say to you, get your own house in order before trying to critique and diminish what they have built and are building together. Chances are you could be missing out on happiness because you are too wrapped up in your own bitterness.
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