The Space He Needs

The Space He Needs
In relationships there are moments when you have to re-evaluate the purpose of the bond. Issues may arise but if not approached the right way there can be mistakes made, which will only destroy the bond that has worked so well for you in the past.
As time goes on people change, things that use to be normal become more difficult, a person’s ability to handle situations before may require more effort as time goes on. Life separates or places closer together.
The belief in “Absence make the heart grow fonder” is a belief that tests the heart, the connection, and the persons involved, overall, it creates an understanding of life without one another. The secret to that test is both people learn a lesson separate from the one another. Once you are back in each other’s life, you are to apply what that lesson is by action and not just through words.
Love is only the connection, the work comes into play when people start appreciating their situation, their relationship, and the future that both of you are building.
The more you grow the easier the difficult obstacles become. You realize how effortless it is to deal with those problems that use to weigh so heavily in your life. Now you see that there is a stronger partnership and a better understanding of the strengths and weaknesses of you both.
Speaking from experience this is a great way to become one whole person when you realize what half you represent and what half they represent. Love doesn’t have to end, it just has to grow and become stronger, but it can’t get there alone, you have to step up and make the sacrifice.
Life without sacrifice isn’t living, it is existing.